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lailah_tov ([personal profile] lailah_tov) wrote in [community profile] bdsmexchange 2022-05-26 08:27 am (UTC)

Nonsexual Kink - Nonsexual Intimate Touch as Part of D/s Scene

That one's mine. I was thinking of something like this story where the sub's reward for being good is getting a nonsexual kiss and cuddles from the domme, or nonsexual intimate touch as part of service (such as giving a massage or being a literal bedwarmer). Basically the inverse of the smut tags.

I don't see another good way to specify that I want intimate touch between the participants in a scene but explicitly don't want it to be sexual touch. I'm open to rewording if you think it's unclear or have another idea of how to express it. I could break it out into Nonsexual Kink - Dom Rewards Sub with Nonsexual Intimate Touch and Nonsexual Kink - Sub Provides Nonsexual Intimate Touch as Part of Service, but I liked the idea of it being a more general tag and letting the writer interpret it as they prefer.

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