I'm not talking about cockwarming or muffwarming, tho, or immobolization. I'm talking more about the mental/emotional state or interpersonal dynamic? I'm not sure how to communicate that more clearly than I have though. Hmm. I guess it's something like seeing the sub (at least in the context of the scene) as only useful for their genitals or ability to weild a strap-on? Sorry if this isn't making sense.