Not sure if there's a better way to put this, at least, I've not encountered one. It's a catch-all for things that push a body to the limit? like, this could be Desperation realted, like omorashi, a bathroom control situ where the sub isn't allowed and has to struggle to maintain control until given permission, etc,
but this can also be, like, edging related, struggling to maintain control and not orgasm until given permission.
the same, like, dynamic can be at play in things like predicament bondage etc, situations where the person has to maintain a position until they're too tired or given permission...
for some folks with the kink, it is sometimes just called "desperation" and is implied to cover a lot of diff situations, but i've not yet encountered a better way to catch that dynamic (regaurdless of the Specifc situ/kink/kind of bodily reaction they're trying not to give into).
Thoughts?
you can of course itemize the kinds of things the person is asked to resist, but I was trying to get at a catch-all for the specific bdsm Dynamic, because I'm one of those people who can get behind a Wide range of specific kinks, if this struggle-to-maintain-control-until-x dynamic is the way the kink is engaged with.
struggle to maintain bodily control - Could the nominator elaborate on what they're picturing?
but this can also be, like, edging related, struggling to maintain control and not orgasm until given permission.
the same, like, dynamic can be at play in things like predicament bondage etc, situations where the person has to maintain a position until they're too tired or given permission...
for some folks with the kink, it is sometimes just called "desperation" and is implied to cover a lot of diff situations, but i've not yet encountered a better way to catch that dynamic (regaurdless of the Specifc situ/kink/kind of bodily reaction they're trying not to give into).
Thoughts?
you can of course itemize the kinds of things the person is asked to resist, but I was trying to get at a catch-all for the specific bdsm Dynamic, because I'm one of those people who can get behind a Wide range of specific kinks, if this struggle-to-maintain-control-until-x dynamic is the way the kink is engaged with.