Thanks for the clarification about the 'scenes' slang!
Like I said in the rules post, this is not an exchange for general sex acts, but for BDSM and BDSM-adjacent kinks. Obviously, this is a subjective line, and unfortunately there's probably no one definition that would make everyone happy. You are welcome to prompt for or include other kinks that are not ruled acceptable freeforms in works - they just aren't criteria that can be matched on.
However, any kink that falls under the acronym is allowed, so piercing and other kinks that involve pain definitely are. Likewise, corsets are allowed for several reasons (BDSM-associated clothing and the fact that they can be used for body modification, discipline and discomfort, even if a corset is certainly not always uncomfortable). This is regardless of the gender of the wearers. Mommy and Daddy kink I would consider adjacent to roleplaying and power exchange, enough that I have approved them.
I am willing to hear argument for crossdressing or gloves being particularly BDSM-associated but my current inclination is not to allow them by themselves. This is also true of breeding kink and voyeurism. I do not consider endytophilia/fetish for a partner wearing clothing during sex on topic, but you're welcome to nominate it, or any other kink that is not ruled on topic by itself, in a scenario which also incorporates BDSM, e.g., Clothed Dom Naked Sub or similar. I hope that helps!
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Date: 2022-05-24 04:27 am (UTC)Like I said in the rules post, this is not an exchange for general sex acts, but for BDSM and BDSM-adjacent kinks. Obviously, this is a subjective line, and unfortunately there's probably no one definition that would make everyone happy. You are welcome to prompt for or include other kinks that are not ruled acceptable freeforms in works - they just aren't criteria that can be matched on.
However, any kink that falls under the acronym is allowed, so piercing and other kinks that involve pain definitely are. Likewise, corsets are allowed for several reasons (BDSM-associated clothing and the fact that they can be used for body modification, discipline and discomfort, even if a corset is certainly not always uncomfortable). This is regardless of the gender of the wearers. Mommy and Daddy kink I would consider adjacent to roleplaying and power exchange, enough that I have approved them.
I am willing to hear argument for crossdressing or gloves being particularly BDSM-associated but my current inclination is not to allow them by themselves. This is also true of breeding kink and voyeurism. I do not consider endytophilia/fetish for a partner wearing clothing during sex on topic, but you're welcome to nominate it, or any other kink that is not ruled on topic by itself, in a scenario which also incorporates BDSM, e.g., Clothed Dom Naked Sub or similar. I hope that helps!