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slashmarks ([personal profile] slashmarks) wrote in [community profile] bdsmexchange2022-05-23 02:37 am

Nomination Clarifications Post #1

If you've found a duplicate or other mistake, please let me know here!

Nominators for the tags below have about 72 hours to fix them, defend them or replace them with something else (until 3 AM EDT on the 26th). After that, I will reject or fix them as below.

Relationship Tags

Buffyverse

Kushiel's Legacy - Jacqueline Carey

Marvel Cinematic Universe

Freeform Tags

Off-topic

The following tags are off topic and will be rejected. If you want to use the slot for something else, or edit them to include something that makes them on topic (for example, including them in a D/s scenario or adding kinky details), you have seventy-two hours.

Clothing Kink - Suits
Smut - Sensation Play - Sensual Massage Leads to Sex
Smut - Clothing Kink - Groping/Licking Through Underwear
Fisting
Smut - Endytophilia
Smut - Tattoo Kink - Tracing Partner's Tattoos During Sex
Boypussy (This falls under the fantasy rule; the person with a boypussy must be doing something kinky to count. If that's being body modded to have one, please specify!)
Sex Toys - Custom Made
blowjob to rimjob, Ass to Mouth
Come Inflation


The following tags are probably off topic, but I am willing to hear arguments that they should be accepted.

Cockwarming, Cock Warming
Crossdressing, Male Character(s) Wearing Panties and Garters, Male Character(s) Wearing Lace,  Clothing Kink - Crossdressing
Breeding Kink, Breeding
Clothing Kink - Gloves
Voyeurism
Hyper Muscle Growth


Ambiguous Wording

The following tags are worded confusingly and need to be rephrased. I will either reject them or edit them as I think is best in seventy-two hours.

Predator/Prey - is this meant as a roleplay scenario, a petplay scenario, an anthro scenario, a vore scenario, something else? Please specify/edit.

Pillow Talk Negotiations - Could the nominator please explain what they were picturing?

Bitching - Do you want the A/B/O scenario or the bestiality one?

Sub wants to be held down - I'm not clear whether the nominator wants "Bondage - Held down," or a negotiation scene where the sub expresses their desire to be held down.

Safewords, Safeword Use, safewords respected
Are these meant to be scenes where a safeword is used, or where the characters discuss/think about having safewords?

experienced sub scenes with inexperienced dom - I'm not sure what "scenes" as a verb is supposed to mean here, could the nominator clarify?

Immobilized by restraints - is this meant as Bondage - With Restraints, or Bondage - Completely Immobilized, or something else?


Other Problems and Queries:

Forced Mesudanshi TF - what does this mean? Also, does TF stand for transformation?

Cobb Vanth's Enormous Dick, Cockslut Din Djarin
Freeforms may be fandom-specific, but not character-specific.

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[personal profile] moongoddex 2022-05-23 10:27 am (UTC)(link)
My bad on the Loki/Sylvie/Thor front, happy to have them under Loki TV :)

(Anonymous) 2022-05-23 01:44 pm (UTC)(link)
Immobilized by restraints was me! I updated to Bondage - Completely Immobilized.
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[personal profile] withthekeyisking 2022-05-23 03:35 pm (UTC)(link)
Not the "experienced sub scenes with inexperienced dom" submitter but scenes is often used as the verb to mean "participates in BDSM scene with someone". If I scene with blindfolds, I'm doing a scene with blindfolds.

For "Clothing Kink - Gloves": I'm confused about why this wouldn't be allowed when there are other clothing kink things. Why is a kink about gloves not allowed but a kink about piercings is?

For "Male Character(s) Wearing Panties and Garters" and "Male Character(s) Wearing Lace": You've already accepted "Male Character(s) Wear Corset" into the tagset, and the others fit that exact kind of thing. Why are they different in eligibility?

"Breeding Kink", "Voyeurism", and "Endytophilia" aren't mine but I'm confused about why they wouldn't be allowed as well - they're specific kinks that people have. Why do they not qualify when something like "Mommy Kink" does?
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[personal profile] flowersforgraves 2022-05-24 12:02 am (UTC)(link)
obligatory "not the nominator but" -- in my experience, predator/prey is almost always roleplay or roleplay-adjacent with the predator hunting down the prey and/or one or both of the parties taking on animalistic qualities during sexual acts. I think for people familiar with the term that tag does not need clarification.
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[personal profile] swingandswirl 2022-05-24 06:29 am (UTC)(link)
Not the cockwarming submitter but I've often seen fic where it's been a way to show submission/for the sub to enter subspace?

(Anonymous) 2022-05-24 12:09 pm (UTC)(link)
Hi, I originally nominated "Dom orders sub to perform sex acts on someone else" but then I saw that someone else nominated "Dom makes sub have sex with other people while they watch" which is actually a better descriptor of the scenario I had in mind, if you wanted to consolidate those tags.
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[personal profile] welsper 2022-05-24 05:27 pm (UTC)(link)
Pillow Talk Negotiations - I was thinking of something like a couple sharing BDSM fantasies or negotiating while snuggling together in bed, so an intimate conversation in bed with BDSM content. :3

(Anonymous) 2022-05-24 08:41 pm (UTC)(link)
hi! im the bitching and rimming nominatior! i changed them to
"A/B/O - Bitching"
"Dom/Sub - Sub rims Dom as a submissive act"
respectively! thanks!
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[personal profile] reflectedeve 2022-05-24 09:06 pm (UTC)(link)
I noticed this semi-duplicate in the tagset:

Cathartic Submission
Subbing to achieve catharsis

(There's also "Domming to Allow Safe Emotional Release for Sub," but I think the nominator's intention was to highlight the dom's intentions?)

I'm also a little confused by the tags with the “Smut” prefix; it seems kind of unnecessary and confusing, especially given the range of specific tags it's attached to.
Edited 2022-05-24 21:07 (UTC)
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[personal profile] vriddy 2022-05-25 07:29 am (UTC)(link)
A duplicate pairing nom in "僕のヒーローアカデミア | Boku no Hero Academia | My Hero Academia":

Dabi | Todoroki Touya/Takami Keigo | Hawks (BNHA)
Dabi/Hawks (BNHA)

Fire Emblem Fandom Associations

(Anonymous) 2022-05-26 01:38 am (UTC)(link)
Hi! I'm not the nominator, but very familiar with this fandom, and Fire Emblem Series is definitely an overly general fandom tag that shouldn't be used for exchange purposes. It's like MCU, Final Fantasy Series, Dragon Age, etc---the games are completely separate in all practical terms.

Here are the ship tags in question and the AO3-approved names of the fandoms they should be under:

Alm/Clea | Clair (Fire Emblem) - Fire Emblem Echoes: Mou Hitori no Eiyuu Ou | Fire Emblem Echoes: Shadows of Valentia
Asama | Azama/My Unit | Kamui | Corrin (Fire Emblem) - Fire Emblem: If | Fire Emblem: Fates
Berkut/Rinea (Fire Emblem) - Fire Emblem Echoes: Mou Hitori no Eiyuu Ou | Fire Emblem Echoes: Shadows of Valentia
Chrom/Tiamo | Cordelia (Fire Emblem) - Fire Emblem: Kakusei | Fire Emblem: Awakening
Dyute | Delthea/Ryuto | Luthier (Fire Emblem) - Fire Emblem Echoes: Mou Hitori no Eiyuu Ou | Fire Emblem Echoes: Shadows of Valentia
Ephraim/Heanius | Innes (Fire Emblem) - Fire Emblem: The Sacred Stones
Frederick/Liz | Lissa (Fire Emblem) - Fire Emblem: Kakusei | Fire Emblem: Awakening
Gangrel/My Unit | Reflet | Robin (Fire Emblem) - Fire Emblem: Kakusei | Fire Emblem: Awakening
Hinata/Oboro/Takumi (Fire Emblem) - Fire Emblem: If | Fire Emblem: Fates
Ike/Senerio | Soren (Fire Emblem) - Fire Emblem: Soen no Kiseki/Akatsuki no Megami | Fire Emblem Path of Radiance/Radiant Dawn
Leanne/Naesala (Fire Emblem) - Fire Emblem: Soen no Kiseki/Akatsuki no Megami | Fire Emblem Path of Radiance/Radiant Dawn
Lukas/Robin | Tobin (Fire Emblem) - Fire Emblem Echoes: Mou Hitori no Eiyuu Ou | Fire Emblem Echoes: Shadows of Valentia
Makalov/Marcia (Fire Emblem) - Fire Emblem: Soen no Kiseki/Akatsuki no Megami | Fire Emblem Path of Radiance/Radiant Dawn
Makalov/Stella | Astrid (Fire Emblem) - Fire Emblem: Soen no Kiseki/Akatsuki no Megami | Fire Emblem Path of Radiance/Radiant Dawn
Maribelle/Wyck | Vaike (Fire Emblem) - Fire Emblem: Kakusei | Fire Emblem: Awakening
Marx | Xander/My Unit | Kamui | Corrin (Fire Emblem) - Fire Emblem: If | Fire Emblem: Fates
My Unit | Kamui | Corrin/Takumi (Fire Emblem) - Fire Emblem: If | Fire Emblem: Fates
My Unit | Reflet | Robin/Walhart (Fire Emblem) - Fire Emblem: Kakusei | Fire Emblem: Awakening
Reyson/Tibarn (Fire Emblem) - Fire Emblem: Soen no Kiseki/Akatsuki no Megami | Fire Emblem Path of Radiance/Radiant Dawn
Senerio | Soren/Skrimir (Fire Emblem) - Fire Emblem: Soen no Kiseki/Akatsuki no Megami | Fire Emblem Path of Radiance/Radiant Dawn