Nomination Clarifications Post #2
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Nominators for the tags below have about 48 hours to fix them, defend them or replace them with something else (until 4 AM EDT on the 28th). After that, I will reject or fix them as below.
Fandoms:
Last post I received a request to separate Fire Emblem into separate games and remove the current nominations under the series tag. (Comment here). I'm not familiar with this fandom. Could any other Fire Emblem participants with feelings on this share their opinions?
Relationships:
Bottom who flags orange right/Dom who teaches them why that's a bad idea - Could the nominator explain what they mean by this?
Freeforms:
Off-topic:
The following tags will be rejected unless they are edited to incorporate BDSM/etc. explicitly.
General reminders: fantasy is not eligible unless the fantastic creatures or worldbuilding involves kink; non-con and abuse must also involve kink to be eligible. Not all sex acts are eligible as freeform tags, although you're welcome to incorporate them in your optional details.
AU - Everyone is a Mythical Creature/has Sex with Mythical Creatures
AU - Everyone is an Angel or a Demon and Being Attracted to their Opposite is Unlawful
Begging
Cock Rings
Mating Bond
Negative Attention Seeking Behavior
Scenario - Masquerade Sex with Characters pretending not to know each other's Identity
Yandere
The following tags I am open to discussion about but am currently leaning towards rejecting:
Captivity, Lima Syndrome, Stockholm Syndrome, Worldbuilding - Dragon Monster Girls imprison lover(s) in their hoard
All of these tags involve kidnapping scenarios but no further kink/sexual details. I've approved some BDSM fantasy scenarios like Sexual Slavery, but my feeling is that kidnapping by itself is more like a general non-con or assault tag, and I would prefer more specific kink/sexy details for these tags to approve them. I'm open to discussion, here!
Ambiguous Tags
The following tags need to be clarified. I will edit them as I see fit or reject if I don't receive more information.
Nonsexual Kink - Nonsexual Intimate Touch as Part of D/s Scene - could the nominator give an example or explain what they mean by this?
Nursing Kink - I assume you probably want the medical profession, but could you confirm whether you want nurse (profession) kink, or nursing (breast milk) kink?
Using a partner like they are no more than life support for a cock/dildo/hole - Could the nominator explain what they mean by this?
Nominators for the tags below have about 48 hours to fix them, defend them or replace them with something else (until 4 AM EDT on the 28th). After that, I will reject or fix them as below.
Fandoms:
Last post I received a request to separate Fire Emblem into separate games and remove the current nominations under the series tag. (Comment here). I'm not familiar with this fandom. Could any other Fire Emblem participants with feelings on this share their opinions?
Relationships:
Freeforms:
Off-topic:
The following tags will be rejected unless they are edited to incorporate BDSM/etc. explicitly.
General reminders: fantasy is not eligible unless the fantastic creatures or worldbuilding involves kink; non-con and abuse must also involve kink to be eligible. Not all sex acts are eligible as freeform tags, although you're welcome to incorporate them in your optional details.
AU - Everyone is an Angel or a Demon and Being Attracted to their Opposite is Unlawful
Begging
Cock Rings
Mating Bond
Negative Attention Seeking Behavior
Scenario - Masquerade Sex with Characters pretending not to know each other's Identity
Yandere
The following tags I am open to discussion about but am currently leaning towards rejecting:
All of these tags involve kidnapping scenarios but no further kink/sexual details. I've approved some BDSM fantasy scenarios like Sexual Slavery, but my feeling is that kidnapping by itself is more like a general non-con or assault tag, and I would prefer more specific kink/sexy details for these tags to approve them. I'm open to discussion, here!
Ambiguous Tags
The following tags need to be clarified. I will edit them as I see fit or reject if I don't receive more information.
Nursing Kink - I assume you probably want the medical profession, but could you confirm whether you want nurse (profession) kink, or nursing (breast milk) kink?
Using a partner like they are no more than life support for a cock/dildo/hole - Could the nominator explain what they mean by this?
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Date: 2022-05-26 08:27 am (UTC)That one's mine. I was thinking of something like this story where the sub's reward for being good is getting a nonsexual kiss and cuddles from the domme, or nonsexual intimate touch as part of service (such as giving a massage or being a literal bedwarmer). Basically the inverse of the smut tags.
I don't see another good way to specify that I want intimate touch between the participants in a scene but explicitly don't want it to be sexual touch. I'm open to rewording if you think it's unclear or have another idea of how to express it. I could break it out into Nonsexual Kink - Dom Rewards Sub with Nonsexual Intimate Touch and Nonsexual Kink - Sub Provides Nonsexual Intimate Touch as Part of Service, but I liked the idea of it being a more general tag and letting the writer interpret it as they prefer.
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Date: 2022-05-26 08:29 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2022-05-26 08:33 am (UTC)Also, I would strongly prefer to retain "intimate touch" as part of the tag, not just "touch."
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Date: 2022-05-26 06:25 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2022-05-26 09:25 pm (UTC)That works!
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Date: 2022-05-27 03:58 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2022-05-26 09:15 am (UTC)1. As the previous commenter mentioned, the Fire Emblem games aren't related to each other at all, aside from a few exceptions (e.g. the single tag Fire Emblem: Soen no Kiseki/Akatsuki no Megami | Fire Emblem Path of Radiance/Radiant Dawn covers 2 games, the second of which is a sequel to the first). Aside from those exceptions, the games do not share characters or settings. They're stand-alone; playing one game would enable you to offer/request that game, but not others. Several of the early entries in the franchise have never even been released in English.
2. Seperating the fandoms would make it much more feasible for creators and requesters to offer/request 'any' in the individual fandoms, whereas the general tag is most definitely too broad to even think of doing that, since it would include a large number of games in the franchise that are completely unrelated and which participants wouldn't be expected to be familiar with.
3. The umbrella tag also includes the side games such as the gacha game (Heroes) and the fighting game (Warriors), which feature alternate versions of characters from the main games. Characters being listed generally under the Fire Emblem Series would mean opening up the risky possibility of someone requesting/offering a character only knowing either the side game or main game version, and then ending up matched to someone who only knows of the other. (Especially if the canonical tag, Character (Fire Emblem) is used.)
In short: please separate the Fire Emblem games into individual fandoms!
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Date: 2022-05-26 06:26 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2022-05-26 09:46 am (UTC)As according to a common variation of the hanky code, orange means "anything, anywhere, anytime." Orange right means being on the receiving end of that. (It can also mean "nothing at all" because the hanky code is wonderful like that.) As its first meaning, most people that I've interacted with find it foolish/a bad idea, and one man I know actually told a young guy flagging that that they were going to go outside and he was going to castrate the other guy and feed him his balls. Not something he followed through on, obviously, but it got the point across.
So the purpose to that tag is to harken back to why saying "no limits ever" is uh, not a great idea. Up to the writer how far they take it though.
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Date: 2022-05-26 11:43 am (UTC)https://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/commons/thumb/5/5c/Color_Codes.jpg/900px-Color_Codes.jpg
https://closetprofessor.files.wordpress.com/2016/03/image8.jpeg?w=768&h=1368
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Just in case anyone doesn't see this discussion and gives the opposite!
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Date: 2022-05-26 07:29 pm (UTC)https://www.bootdog.com/hankies.html
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Date: 2022-05-27 02:03 am (UTC)Roxanna Agriche tops Dion Agriche (TWTPTFLOB)
Should be "Roxana".
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Date: 2022-05-27 04:03 am (UTC)Worldbuilding - Dragon Monster Girls imprison lover(s) in their hoard
Date: 2022-05-27 03:32 am (UTC)What phrasing would make this acceptable to you?
Re: Worldbuilding - Dragon Monster Girls imprison lover(s) in their hoard
Date: 2022-05-27 04:06 am (UTC)Re: Worldbuilding - Dragon Monster Girls imprison lover(s) in their hoard
Date: 2022-05-27 04:22 am (UTC)I saw it as something that all or most dragon monster girls would do or want to do with their lovers but the exact details would depend on the personality of the dragon monster girl. Like one that is a better person would be doing it consensually with their lover like using honor bondage or CNC while an evil dragon monster girl might stick her lover in bondage gear and shackle them to the wall regardless of what they wanted.
I guess the gist of it was that I wanted to combine Dragon Monster Girls + Dragon tendency to hoard precious things + BDSM, if that makes sense?
Re: Worldbuilding - Dragon Monster Girls imprison lover(s) in their hoard
Date: 2022-05-27 08:37 pm (UTC)Re: Worldbuilding - Dragon Monster Girls imprison lover(s) in their hoard
Date: 2022-05-27 08:39 pm (UTC)Re: Worldbuilding - Dragon Monster Girls imprison lover(s) in their hoard
Date: 2022-05-27 08:43 pm (UTC)Duplicates
Date: 2022-05-28 04:44 am (UTC)Under "Arcane: League of Legends (Cartoon 2021)" in cartoons:
Jinks tops Caitlyn (ALOL)
and
Jinx tops Caitlyn (Arcane: LoL)
(Jinx is the correct spelling)
And under additional tags:
A/B/O - Omega Wets Themself to Show Submission
and
A/B/O - Omega Wetting Self As Ultimate Sign Of Submission
They should mean roughly the same thing. I'm the one who submitted the first one and personally I feel like adding "ultimate" or not doesn't make enough difference to warrant the tags being separate.
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