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First: as nomination approvals were stalled for a few days, if you were waiting on an answer to a query (e.g., Pokemon fans) or a tag was edited in a way you feel changes its meaning, please comment and I will add (a reasonable number of) tags manually for you.

Sign ups will open tonight (May 20th) at 11:59 PM EDT. At that time I will do my best to resolve all open queries myself.

In the meantime, if you notice any duplicates, mistakes or typos in your fandom, please comment here!

Queries:

Marvel 616
Gabriel tops Ben Reilly (616)

Google suggests there's more than one Gabriel in this fandom. Which one was intended?



Star Wars Legends
Kam Solusar tops Luke Skywalker (SWL)
Leia Organa + Winter Celchu top Mara Jade (SWL)
Mara Jade + Talon Karrde top Luke Skywalker (SWL)
Talon Karrde tops Luke Skywalker (SWL)

Could the nominator(s) identify a specific Star Wars property for these tags? Otherwise I will try to identify one by googling, but it may not be the one you wanted.


Freeforms
Scenario - Doms can use willpower to make Subs obey - Was this intended as a mind control tag, or something else?
struggle to maintain bodily control - Could the nominator elaborate on what they're picturing?

Date: 2023-05-20 02:01 pm (UTC)
dirty_diana: model Zhenya Katava wears a crown (Default)
From: [personal profile] dirty_diana
I'm confused about the Daddy Kink rejection - a Daddy is a kind of Dom? And a bunch of the constituent parts of the kink - obedience, discipline, age play - are in the tagset.

Date: 2023-05-20 04:36 pm (UTC)
From: (Anonymous)
Agreed, as one of the age play nominators. Maybe Daddy Dom would be an acceptable replacement?

Date: 2023-05-20 04:38 pm (UTC)
withthekeyisking: (Default)
From: [personal profile] withthekeyisking
Also, the wording of one of my tags got changed, and for the most part I don't mind it except I really was specifically interested in the Sub trying to get hurt, get a beating, not just getting a reaction out of their Dom.

My Tag: Sub mouths off because they desperately want a beating
Changed To: Discipline - sub mouths off/acts out because they desperately want a reaction

Date: 2023-05-20 05:37 pm (UTC)
From: (Anonymous)
For the Star Wars, can I put the first nom under Jedi Academy Trilogy (Kevin J. anderson). And all the remaining under The Thrawn Trilogy (Timothy Zahn). Not the 2017 fandom!

Star Wars Legends: Jedi Academy Trilogy (Kevin J. Anderson)
Kam Solusar tops Luke Skywalker

Star Wars Legends: Thrawn Trilogy (Timothy Zahn)
Leia Organa + Winter Celchu top Mara Jade
Mara Jade + Talon Karrde top Luke Skywalker
Talon Karrde tops Luke Skywalker

Thank you!
From: (Anonymous)
Not sure if there's a better way to put this, at least, I've not encountered one. It's a catch-all for things that push a body to the limit? like, this could be Desperation realted, like omorashi, a bathroom control situ where the sub isn't allowed and has to struggle to maintain control until given permission, etc,

but this can also be, like, edging related, struggling to maintain control and not orgasm until given permission.

the same, like, dynamic can be at play in things like predicament bondage etc, situations where the person has to maintain a position until they're too tired or given permission...

for some folks with the kink, it is sometimes just called "desperation" and is implied to cover a lot of diff situations, but i've not yet encountered a better way to catch that dynamic (regaurdless of the Specifc situ/kink/kind of bodily reaction they're trying not to give into).

Thoughts?

you can of course itemize the kinds of things the person is asked to resist, but I was trying to get at a catch-all for the specific bdsm Dynamic, because I'm one of those people who can get behind a Wide range of specific kinks, if this struggle-to-maintain-control-until-x dynamic is the way the kink is engaged with.
From: (Anonymous)
applies in supernatural situ also, Trying not to prematurely knot, trying not to vamp out until allowed, trying not to transform, whatever that, like, physical line/climax is that they are trying to hold back from until they are given permission, or fail and lose control
From: (Anonymous)
I did, the specific ones that came to mind as more popular (orgasm delay/denial, etc), so no worries on that front.

And I personally have a little blurb I always add in the want/dnw sections of my own prompts/requests, to try to communicate the vibe, in case it works for someone. 👌

Date: 2023-05-21 05:26 am (UTC)
From: (Anonymous)
Probably too late to fix, but I only now noticed that there's a typo in one of the character names in fandom The Haunting (1963) - Luka Sanderson tops John Markway (The Haunting (1963))

"Luka" should of course be "Luke" as in the other variations nominated.

Date: 2023-05-22 10:11 pm (UTC)
entangledwood: (Default)
From: [personal profile] entangledwood
Might be too late, but I'm the nominator for 'Scenario - Doms can use willpower to make Subs obey'.
I wasn't thinking of the specifics. I guess it could be considered a form of mind control...although for me mind control is specifically something long lasting/continuous and for this scenario it could also be something where focused/short where it's just a very specific order/type of order that can be enforced.

(Not sure if that helps at all to clarify though)

Date: 2023-05-24 11:01 am (UTC)
entangledwood: (Default)
From: [personal profile] entangledwood
I thought about it a little more and I think the Scenario keyword might be misleading. It might be more "AU - Doms can control subs through metaphysical power"
As seen for example in this story https://archiveofourown.org/works/1241551/chapters/2550295

However, if that's still too vague, I' happy to have the tag rejected for this round and I'll think about it some more for next year
Edited Date: 2023-05-24 11:01 am (UTC)

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