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First: as nomination approvals were stalled for a few days, if you were waiting on an answer to a query (e.g., Pokemon fans) or a tag was edited in a way you feel changes its meaning, please comment and I will add (a reasonable number of) tags manually for you.

Sign ups will open tonight (May 20th) at 11:59 PM EDT. At that time I will do my best to resolve all open queries myself.

In the meantime, if you notice any duplicates, mistakes or typos in your fandom, please comment here!

Queries:

Marvel 616
Gabriel tops Ben Reilly (616)

Google suggests there's more than one Gabriel in this fandom. Which one was intended?



Star Wars Legends
Kam Solusar tops Luke Skywalker (SWL)
Leia Organa + Winter Celchu top Mara Jade (SWL)
Mara Jade + Talon Karrde top Luke Skywalker (SWL)
Talon Karrde tops Luke Skywalker (SWL)

Could the nominator(s) identify a specific Star Wars property for these tags? Otherwise I will try to identify one by googling, but it may not be the one you wanted.


Freeforms
Scenario - Doms can use willpower to make Subs obey - Was this intended as a mind control tag, or something else?
struggle to maintain bodily control - Could the nominator elaborate on what they're picturing?
From: (Anonymous)
Not sure if there's a better way to put this, at least, I've not encountered one. It's a catch-all for things that push a body to the limit? like, this could be Desperation realted, like omorashi, a bathroom control situ where the sub isn't allowed and has to struggle to maintain control until given permission, etc,

but this can also be, like, edging related, struggling to maintain control and not orgasm until given permission.

the same, like, dynamic can be at play in things like predicament bondage etc, situations where the person has to maintain a position until they're too tired or given permission...

for some folks with the kink, it is sometimes just called "desperation" and is implied to cover a lot of diff situations, but i've not yet encountered a better way to catch that dynamic (regaurdless of the Specifc situ/kink/kind of bodily reaction they're trying not to give into).

Thoughts?

you can of course itemize the kinds of things the person is asked to resist, but I was trying to get at a catch-all for the specific bdsm Dynamic, because I'm one of those people who can get behind a Wide range of specific kinks, if this struggle-to-maintain-control-until-x dynamic is the way the kink is engaged with.
From: (Anonymous)
applies in supernatural situ also, Trying not to prematurely knot, trying not to vamp out until allowed, trying not to transform, whatever that, like, physical line/climax is that they are trying to hold back from until they are given permission, or fail and lose control
From: (Anonymous)
I did, the specific ones that came to mind as more popular (orgasm delay/denial, etc), so no worries on that front.

And I personally have a little blurb I always add in the want/dnw sections of my own prompts/requests, to try to communicate the vibe, in case it works for someone. 👌

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